a-smile-can-change-lives asked - "hi, sigh well a few months ago i figured out i was a Dominant .... and well i when on some sites and found some online pets (my town doesn't have even a small bdsm group) ... well my pets left because "they couldn't handle the strain" ... ive been feeling recently that I need to find a new pet but honestly I don't know where to go ... I'm pretty new at this and at this point I've started doubting that I am a good Dom... for letting them leave and for not finding anyone new yet ..."

This is very hard, I’m sure you are a great Dom. Go on Fetlife.

It is like face book for kinky people and i know of people finding other people on there.

So good luck with everything.

Love sub xxx