Anonymous asked - "That was great advice to the woman who just entered into the D/s relationship. I think there is a glaring concern: she is doing something she is not sure about, and her soul is saying to verify her concerns with reasonable people. I hope she is empowered to ask the question," to what end is this taking me?" There is a fine line between being owned and being played."

This is for the question that I answered before, also good advice.

Anonymous asked - "i am so very new to BDSM, i met a Dom online and we started emailing often. many times a day. and after a few day we decided to meet and start what he called "training". So we had our first session. less than 2 weeks after signing on the website, and a week after we began talking and only 1 meeting he had me post several journal entries to my profile saying that i was owned. not knowing the protocal or how to say no to a Dom, i did it.tell me more about traing and ownership.what do they mean?"

Hi, Im pretty sure this is the second question i have receved from you, the first one was a submission so ill answer all the questions from there too.

These were the questions: what does it mean to be owned?  does it mean you are being trained?  is it just like going steady?    should it be something that happens so quickly?  Also, how long is a training process?  do Doms train and release subs regularly? 

A D/s relationship is in some ways like a normal relationship in that there is a million different types. Some people like to take it very seriously and for some people it is just on a casual basis. So being owned to me means that I have to be loved, but the same can not necessarily be said for someone else. So being new to the scene i think it is important that you experience things and then make a decision about what you like and what works for you in a D/s relationship.

To be owned doesn’t necessarily mean you are being trained but for someone who is new to the scene and is still learning, I think that this will be the case. The training process is something that can take any amount of time, depending on what type of training you are taking part in.

But my one tip is, be careful not just that you are entering into a D/s relationship with someone you dont really know, but he is someone you met on the internet and people know how to lie on the internet. So just be cautious.  

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This is a hard question, so I would like anyone who has some more insite for this lovely lady to send me a message about it and ill post it so that she can see.

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Love sub xxx